I was not raised in a faith, although I did celebrate Easter and Christmas. Growing up, I considered myself a Christian, even though I wasn't baptized or attended church (hardly ever). My mother was raised Presbyterian and whenever we travel down south to Kentucky, we would usually go to the Presbyterian church my mom when to as a child. That was about all the exposure I had to God.
I met Todd and quickly learned he was Catholic. Born and raised within the faith, he attended a Catholic grade, middle and high school growing up. I was happy and a little relieved when I found this out because a part of me wanted to belong...somewhere. Before we were married I took the classes, was baptized, confirmed and accepted communion all in one ceremony. It was a packaged deal. Todd and I were married in the church his parents were married in, Divine Child.
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| Allie's Godparents |
Today was the day that our Allie girl was baptized. She was baptized at the church Todd and I belong to now, Holy Family. We had a hard time deciding who Allie's Godparents would be. After all, they should be two people who will have a close relationship with her, who will be good role models to her, and will be there for her with any religious questions she may have growing up. Those are the responsibilities of a Godparent. We were honored when our good friends Mark and Kathleen Ader accepted the job. We love them like family and they are very close friends...after all, they do live around the corner from us.
The way our church baptizes children is so...they pour or dunk the baby in water then you take the baby to a private room and change into the baptismal gown. Todd and I decided that we would only have the priest pour water on Allie's head. However, at the last minute I had second thoughts. It must have been peer pressure. Every other baby was being dunked into the baby-sized swimming pool, except Allie. I whispered to Todd if he thought we should have Allie dunked too and he said, "no." So I just went with it.
Allie did very well at the ceremony. She only whined a little when the water was poured over her head. Her Godmother helped her change into her vintage gown. This gown was worn by Todd's mom and aunt, Todd himself and his sister, and Todd's two nieces. I'm very appreciative that Todd's mom's agreed to let me hang it up in Allie's room as a decoration. It is beautiful and stunning. It looks gorgeous in her room and Allie looked gorgeous wearing it the day she was baptized. Now that the ceremony is over, the party food and cake are eaten, and the thank you cards are in the mail (yes, I'm fast) I'm started to regret my decision to not have Allie dunked in the water. I don't really know why. I don't have a very good reason. But, if I could do it all over again, I would have Allie submerged in the water completely. The photographs would have be spectacular.